So it’s time to explore why “loving yourself” is such common advice, how to know if you actually do, the signs that you might not, and then how to begin the journey of liking yourself, so you can eventually building towards that love.

If you’ve ever felt totally thrown off by something someone said or did and it literally would not leave you alone, then girl, is this one for you. There is nothing like the frustration that comes from being upset about something, far more and far longer than you logically know makes sense. It just keeps bugging you. Being triggered is something that everyone experiences. But here’s the secret: those triggers can actually be your biggest clues for self-discovery.

Let’s be real: if you’re here Googling journal prompts for overthinking, you’re probably not having a fabulous, totally chill, everything is working out for me day….right?

Let me guess—you’re the nice one. The dependable one. The one who says yes even when every cell in your body wants to scream no. You’re the helper, the peacemaker, the one who smooths things over and makes sure everyone else is okay, even if it means you’re secretly not.

The best part about starting small is you can sometimes feel an initial boost that helps you want to keep going. So in today’s post, I want to talk through some small, everyday tweaks and habits that can get the ball rolling. I’ve compiled a list of affordable, easy-to-implement ideas that can help you start building your confidence today. These are practical tips that focus on boosting your mindset and embracing self-love—no big budget required!

We’ve all had moments where we’ve asked ourselves, “Will I ever be confident?” or wondered how to improve that elusive sense of self-assurance. Confidence is the thing we all know we want but aren’t necessarily sure how to get. You know that confident people seem to do better in life but they never really teach us what confidence is and certainly not how to build it.

How to be more confident is a question millions of people ask themselves each year. But it can be frustrating to start when confidence is low - you want to feel better about yourself but don’t know how to start feeling better from scratch? In this piece, I’m diving into how to define confidence, why many women struggle to achieve it and some ways to start from the ground up.

How to be more confident is a question millions of people ask themselves each year. But it can be frustrating to start when confidence is low - you want to feel better about yourself but don’t know how to start feeling better from scratch? In this piece, I’m diving into how to define confidence, why many women struggle to achieve it and some ways to start from the ground up.

I’ve felt off and it made me feel like a fraud to admit it. There's a funny thing that happens when your job becomes “Confidence Coach.” You spend your working hours telling people that their difficult feelings are normal and that we need to honor everything that we're experiencing (because what we resist persists y'all).

We have all heard about it but what does self-sabotage look like and how do we stop self-sabotaging? In this post, we’re going to talk abou the most common ways I see clients self-sabotaging and help you understand what’s underneath these behaviors so you can apply the insights in your life to stop getting in your own way!

In celebration of my birthday, I thought it’d be fun to collect some of the lessons I’ve learned in the last year, since I turned 30. Everytime I do these sort of reflections I’m always so encouraged by how far I’ve come in the period of time, that we’re often so quick to skim over and ignore in the motivation to move on to the next. So for now, I bring to you, on the occasion of my 31st birthday, 31 things I’ve learned this year…

It’d be nice if it was as simple as “stop doing so much” and “start asking for help more” but I have lived experience totally understand that when you’ve been an overachiever for decades, asking for help can be really friggin’ hard. Why? Because it triggers all sorts of stories about our value, what we bring to the table and much more.

When something goes wrong in your life do you worry that it's may be because you aren't good enough? Do you often evaluate yourself against other people in your life and feel like you don’t measure up?This worry about not being “good enough” is one of the most common complaints I hear from overachievers, people pleasers and perfectionists and it makes sense because those behaviors are related to this fear.

It’s an experience everybody goes through at some point in life - things were working for a while and somewhere along the way, almost without you noticing, you transitioned into a different period. This period, where you feel stuck. So I wanted to give you a little free resource if you’re feeling in this “stuck” mode - some great journal prompts to use to work through the stuck.

Why is people pleasing bad and where does people pleasing come from? Some incredibly common questions in my community so it was time to dive deep on this incredibly common behavior so we can understand how to shift it.

If you are wondering how to deal with self-doubt and feeling like you’re constantly battling the negative self-talk, this article will give you the real world behind the scenes advice on what to do to address negative self-talk so you can feel more confident, according to a confidence coach for high achieving women.

What good is knowing you’re anxiously attached if you have nothing to do with that information? In this post we’re diving into what triggers anxious attachment and how to heal it. Understanding what our body is doing in moments where we are triggered by anxious attachment is the key to understanding how to shift is so you can more effectively form strong healthy relationships, in dating and beyond.

What good is knowing you’re anxiously attached if you have nothing to do with that information? In this post we’re diving into what is anxious attachment, where anxious attachment comes from and the good side of this often maligned attachment style. There is enormous value (self-awareness, tools and the potential for real healing) in understanding what your attachment style means for you, in your dating life and beyond.

if you have noticed that you struggle to make decisions on your own, you often doubt or second guess your decisions after you’ve made them and you’re not sure your assessment of situations is always accurate, it may be a sign that you struggle with self-trust.

Struggling with the emotional highs and lows of online dating? I have strong opinions on what’s going on in that experience of feeling offended by the likes you’re getting on the apps and wanting to give up. And I want to make it a little easier!