WISE ADVICE SINCE 1992You’re not alone.
The doubts, feeling overwhelmed, burnout and worrying if you’re “good enough.” We’ve been there. But now we’re here to share stories, lessons, helpful tips and tools to help all of us chart a new path.
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QUIZWhich type of eldest daughter are you?
Regardless of whether you were actually born first, you’re probably here because the eldest daughter archetype feels so friggin’ real to you.
But here at Eldest & Co., we’ve come to realize that there’s actually a couple of different types of eldest daughters and that figuring out which one you are can be key to figuring out how to unlock your next big phase of growth!
For the people pleaser, perfectionist, overachiever eldest daughter who’s ready to trade hustling to prove herself for more peace, confidence and calm
Because let’s be honest, being everything for everybody, caring what other people think, anxious attachment and hustle culture is really exhausting.
We get it.
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Want to run your own BFF board meeting?
This will get you started with a cheat sheet of the questions that my friends and I use during our discussion to help clarify and plan for our goal-setting.
There’s no better feeling that coming together with your besties in 6 months and realizing that you actually did the thing! It starts with a plan and the loving accountability and support to help you follow through.
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5 mistakes you might be making in how you set goals
After years of experimenting with every goal-setting method under the sun, I've realized this: most of us don't need a better planner. We need to understand our own psychology and the ways our current approach might be quietly sabotaging us.
Money tips they should have taught us in school
I know how few of us actually have access to the financial education we need to thrive (and that’s not even touching on the much larger topic of how it’s gotten so much harder to financially thrive as a normal person because of forces that have nothing to do with how hard you work or how you manage your money). So I’m here to share some of the little money tips that can help you navigate money more confidently.
Can I Start My Own Business? Deciding Whether You Want to Be a Business Owner
So, you’re thinking about starting your own business... Before you jump in headfirst, there’s a lot to consider—not just the how but also the why. Running a business isn’t all glamorous; it comes with its fair share of challenges, and it’s not for everyone.
3 to-do list tricks that help me get more done in less time
To-do lists can make a massive difference. The trick isn’t just about writing down everything you need to do, it’s about knowing how to use to-do lists in a way that actually helps you get things done, stay focused, and be more productive.
In defense of tinkering: the most effective mindset for personal growth
The mindset that will help you feel more confident, make better decisions and manage uncertainty that nobody is talking about. This philosophy of tinkering has been a game changer for me actually progressing and growing faster.
Progress vs. Completion
Do you feel like you're constantly on a treadmill in terms of working toward the life you want? Like the to-do list never ends and just when you work through one piece of self-doubt another one pops up?
FEATURED TOOLA game changer for finally releasing those stubborn limiting beliefs
You know what your patterns are, you know what the fears are but how do you actually go about shifting those subconscious beliefs that dictate how we act when we’re triggered or emotional?! Turns out, it’s not about understanding as much as it’s releasing emotions from when you picked them up in the first place. There’s so many tools out there that claim to do this, but honestly, this is the one I keep coming back to. It doesn’t hurt that it can fit in pretty much anybody’s budget. (Plus the code SAMANTHA gets you an extra 15% off!)
Your simple plan to stop living to please.
Whether you’re on day 1 or 1000 of your recovering “good girl” era, the no brainer place to start is my mini-course, “Debunking the Need to Please”.
Every day for the next 6 days, I’ll drop a juicy email in your inbox with some of my biggest aha’s, some of the practices that have helped me and the important reminders, specifically for the overachiever type, to help you really understand what it’s going to take to tackle that people pleasing and stop caring so much what other people think. The best part, it’s totally free.
WHAT OTHER GIRLIES SAY
“Samantha was instrumental in helping me change my thoughts about myself and my self-worth. These are techniques that I'll be using for a long, long time!”
